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The Excluded Middle's avatar

Thank you very much for this article.

I have been telling people this for ages. Our grandmothers took speed for the housewife problem, boredom and never having enough time or motivation to get everything done because it just didn't seem as important as talking on the phone or playing bridge or watching a soap opera and then the whole day's gone and your husband is wondering why all you did was pop TV dinners in the oven when really, you've had all day to cook!

The people hooked on these medications are incredibly brittle and have the same tired slogans and thought-terminating cliches coming out of their mouths if you mention that they're essentially taking a new "mother's little helper" just like they were some Friedan-era suburban stay-at-home-mom. "It works so well, I wouldn't get these results from the medication if I wasn't really neurodivergent."

To hear them tell it, normal people, now termed "neurotypical," simply breeze through life without making any concerted efforts at all. Routines and getting things done simply come easy for these specimens, who of course can get to the gym three times a week or do the dishes right after every meal or finish any project they start, because their normal brains make this an effortless process.

I find that one of the things many of the "adult ADHD" crowd has in common is that they believe everyone successful without some kind of handicap (be that an economic, racial, social, or disability-related handicap) is successful effortlessly. Other kids always seemed to remember their PE clothes in school, but the ADHD kid is sure that's because it's easy for them, not because it's a matter of concerted effort and willpower to go through the same routine every day.

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Dr Teresa Goodell's avatar

One change we could make to improve focus and settle our racing minds is to put down the small computers like the one I'm using to write this. More time in nature, and meditation are others. I think many people know this, yet go on scrolling. That's what the algorithm wants of us.

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